It’s important to note that the SPO does not apply to children under 3 years of age. In those instances, the Court may customize a more appropriate visitation schedule which often includes a “stair-step” type of visitation in which periods of possession are gradually increased over time.
It’s also important to note that standard visitation is not an arrangement of “every other weekend.” Under the SPO, the non-custodial parent (possessory conservator) will have possession of the child(ren) on the first, third, and fifth weekends of each month. This means that on months with 5 weekends (for example, this month), the non-custodial parent will have visitation two weekends in a row—the fifth weekend of July and the first weekend in August! Under an arrangement of “every other weekend,” this would never happen.
Keep in mind that the SPO is in place only for those instances in which the parents or conservators can not agree on visitation. Parents and conservators are ALWAYS free to mutually agree on any visitation arrangement that works for them and the child(ren).
However, absent mutual agreement, possessory conservators (who reside 100 miles or less from the child) will have the following visitation under the SPO:
Weekend Visits – On the first, third and fifth weekends of each month beginning at the time the child is dismissed from school (or at 6:00 pm) on Friday and ending at 6:00 pm on the following Sunday, or when school resumes on Monday.
Weekday Visits – EVERY Thursday beginning at 6:00 pm and ending at 8:00 pm or when school resumes Friday morning. This allows parents to have the child overnight once a week.
Christmas – In even-numbered years from 6:00 p.m. on the day school is dismissed for the holiday to 12:00 noon on December 28. In odd-numbered years from 12:00 noon on December 28 to 6:00 p.m. on the day before school resumes.
Thanksgiving – In odd-numbered years from 6:00 p.m. on the day when school lets out to 6:00 p.m. on the Sunday after Thanksgiving. (The conservator who has the right to determine the primary residence of the child will have the child on Thanksgiving in even numbered years).
Spring Break – In even-numbered years from 6:00 p.m. on the day school is dismissed to 6:00 p.m. on the Sunday before school resumes. (The conservator who has the right to determine the primary residence of the child will have the child for Spring Break in odd numbered years).
Child’s Birthday – On the child’s birthday from 6:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. For example, if the child’s birthday falls during your weekend or holiday visitation period, the other parent will still have the option of seeing the child from 6:00 p.m. – 8:00 p.m.
Father’s or Mother’s Day – from 6:00 p.m. on the Friday prior to Father’s Day or Mother’s Day to 6:00 p.m. on that day (Sunday).
Summer Visitation – If the possessory conservator gives the managing conservator written notice by April 1 of each year specifying an extended period or periods of summer possession, the possessory conservator shall have possession of the child for thirty (30) days beginning the day after the child's school is dismissed for the summer vacation and ending not later than seven (7) days before school resumes at the end of the summer vacation. This can be exercised in not more than two (2) separate periods of at least seven (7) consecutive days each. ***Under this option, the possessory conservator picks the 30 days, which can be broken down into 2 separate periods of at least 7 days each. For example, the possessory conservator could choose June 3-12 and July 3-22. Written notice MUST be given!
* If the possessory conservator does not give the managing conservator written notice by April 1 of each year, the possessory conservator shall have possession of the child for thirty (30) consecutive days beginning at 6:00 o'clock p.m. on July 1 and ending at 6:00 o'clock p.m. on July 31.
Parents or conservators who live greater than 100 miles from the children will have the following visitaiton:
Weekend Visits – Either as provided above, or by designating one weekend per month upon 7 day’s notice (either by written or telephone notice).
Christmas – same as above.
Thanksgiving – same as above.
Spring Break – EVERY year from 6:00 p.m. on the day when school lets out to 6:00 p.m. on the Sunday before school begins.
Child’s Birthday – same as above.
Father’s or Mother’s Day – same as above.
Summer Visitation – If the possessory conservator gives the managing conservator written notice by April 1 of each year specifying an extended period or periods of summer possession, the possessory conservator shall have possession of the child for 42 days beginning not earlier than the day after the child's school is dismissed for the summer vacation and ending not later than seven (7) days before school resumes at the end of the summer vacation, to be exercised in not more than two (2) separate periods of at least seven (7) consecutive days each. *** Under this option, you pick the 42 days, which can be broken down into 2 separate periods of at least 7 days each.
* If the possessory conservator does not give the managing conservator written notice by April 1 of each year specifying an extended period or periods of summer possession, the possessory conservator shall have possession of the child for 42 consecutive days beginning at 6:00 o'clock p.m. on June 15 and ending at 6:00 o'clock p.m. on July 27.
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